They are thinking very independently even before the appropriate age.
I hope that is not bad at all. They know what they want in their life. They know how to get what they want. They know, what prompts them to grow… but what bothers me is …. Their full-fledged independent thoughts and the way they give reasons for their thoughts.
May be we are happy, that our new generation is managing well. Except for one thing, they lack the compassion that we have towards human beings. This is not a criticism and I am not even cynical or anything… just my concern about this new generation behavioral changes…they are very sensitive at the same time they are isolated from the real humans touch…
Independent thoughts gives lot of freedom, freedom gives lot of confidence, confidence sometimes leads into over confidence…… there should be balance between confidence and over confidence.. That is not possible to young minds.
If they are too independent and over confident it destroys their survival instincts, even a moderate let down from their life also gets them into trouble. Independent in decision-making is an art and these kids lack the essence of that art. They can learn when their age progresses…. Until then they must have to accept our guidance.
Now they are not even ready to hear what elders are saying. Nevertheless, if they listen then they can make a good human being out of themselves, because these kids are really very sensitive and passionate about whatever they do.